For migrant children, grief can be a challenging part of their experience. Although the unknown can be overwhelming and disorienting, the variety of losses they face (family, friends, home) makes them physically and psychologically very vulnerable. Children can trigger complex and deep emotions, which appear in various ways.
The impact of pain on migrant children
It is essential to recognize that children process grief differently than adults. The most observed emotional symptoms are depression, anxiety, anguish and lower self-esteem, although behaviors such as hyperactivity and violent behavior are also shown. and, in more serious cases, suicide.
Migrant adolescents and children often show great aspirations for their future, but the lack of stability, security, acceptance, warmth and connection with their community enhances grief. In addition, many children experience parental separation, the death of a family member, or socioeconomic difficulties at home.
Culture shock is another factor in childhood grief. Many migrant children are emotionally affected by everyday problems such as learning a foreign language or the search to belong to a group. Differences such as religion, language, skin tone, educational background, etc., often complicate this adaptation process.
Other symptoms that may appear are developmental regression, such as deciding not to speak or returning to bedwetting or thumb sucking. Therefore, actively listening to their experiences, validating their emotions and offering them a supportive environment are essential steps.
Grief support strategies for migrant children
Accompanying grieving migrant children requires a comprehensive approach focused on emotional well-being. We share some resources and data about this experience to open dialogue, validate emotions and promote resilience.
- “The Only Road” by Alexandra Diaz: This young adult novel follows the story of a Guatemalan boy who undertakes a dangerous journey to the United States in search of safety and freedom.
- “Under the Same Moon” (2007): This film tells the story of a Mexican boy who travels alone to the United States to reunite with his mother.
- Migrant children may be especially vulnerable to labor and sexual exploitation during their journey and after their arrival in a new country.
- According to the UN, in 2020 more than 35,000 arrivals of unaccompanied and separated migrant children were recorded in destination countries such as Italy, Greece, Spain and the United States.
- Establishing a safe space where children feel comfortable sharing their worries and fears is essential for their emotional well-being.
- Spending time exploring and learning about the new country will familiarize children with the culture in a practical way.
The grief of migrant children is a reminder of the importance of compassion and solidarity in our society; Being empathetic and supportive can help them find hope, strength, and resilience amidst the challenges they face. In a context of constant challenges, at Del Pueblo Funeral Home we remind you that we make difficult times easier.
